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The part that most men lack is to create massive attraction while you are dating. It’s a shame because they really have all the pieces except for that one last little piece. Fortunately, it can be solved by simply reading a few good books on the topic. The man I recommend the most on the topic is David DeAngelo.
If she continues to accept your requests and you have gone on several dates, you can begin to talk to her about what a relationship means to her. Different girls will have different ideas of what a relationship is, what they want in a relationship and even whether they want a relationship.
It would be a bummer to look back on life with regret that you didn’t make that first move or take a relationship you cared about to the next level. Don’t give up on a girl that easily.
The other mistake many men make is to create a relationship with the girl in their heads before one exists in real life. Don’t be overwhelmed with the thought of “how do I get a girlfriend”. Instead, let it develop naturally as you make these changes. Because men who are obsessed with this thought clearly communicate a view of the world where they are the ones to be selected by the woman… where all they do all they can to win her favor. As men, we usually have periods in our lives where our only goal seems to be to spread seeds like a bee with a severe pollen addiction.
Unlike women from the 1950s, today’s women don’t need to spend lots of time “getting to know” you to see if you are good husband material. Why? Most guys try to get laid or get a girlfriend by being really nice to women because they don’t even know how to create a spark of sexual attraction inside of her. When you do that, you will see that many of the women you meet feel attracted to you. You are always able to flow from one step to the next, so you can get to kissing, sex and then into a relationship if you want that as well.
- If things go awry, and she doesn’t reciprocate your advances or feelings, don’t act needy or lose your confidence.
- But it’s really good to be passionate about things (not just work) and if you’re motivated to achieve things, women will instantly find you more attractive and interesting.
- #10 Know what to do under the sheets.
I hate to call them basics because I didn’t spend years of my life alone for my plan to be reduced to basics. But there is “leg work” involved. You’ll have to explore certain details for yourself whether it’s through me or not. We’re NOT changing the world here and it’s obvious since the beginning of time men have managed to land some pretty amazing and yes beautiful women too. It’s unimaginable and hard to believe every one of them got everything right all the time from the beginning.
Start a list with the girl you like about the things you have in common. When you get to the end of the line, figure out a clever way to make the next number all about you asking her out. Perhaps you both love hot chocolate with marshmallows.
33 – Point Out Similarities
#6 Master the art of flirting. Listen, as much as people say they’re tired of playing games, it’s a game.
When two people fall in love, they tend to be all over each other. And to friends, it sometimes seems that the two are joined at the hip. I’m sure you’ve known couples that do everything together. Or you have a best friend with whom you’re dying to spend some alone time — without his beloved coming along every single time. When things are going well and everything feels so right… it’s hard to think rationally at times, even though we are ashamed of our eagerness in retrospect when the infatuation chemicals have worn off.
Make a move and kiss her. Women want to be overwhelmingly desired, not rationally considered, so as soon as you start reading the signs she’s into you it’s your job to make a move and kiss her. Once you’re damn sure she’s flirting back it’s time to seal the deal and release all the sexual tension with a kiss.